No matter what - they are together
Patients come to the clinic of Professor Nazaraliev accompanied by their close ones for a reason. First of all, the accompanying person is the best assistant. Especially after such procedure, as “blockade” patients cannot move alone and they need physical help. Regarding the moral support, they need it during the whole period of treatment.
As a rule, all patients are accompanied by one of parents or beloved ones. Participants of the TV reality show are among them. Irina Anisimova, who came here alone, found the support in the face of a former employee of the medical center. Situations might be absolutely different. Squabbles, conflicts and the absence of any of them so well illustrate the relationships among participants and their close ones.
Their relationships are far from ideal ones. Italian always argues with his father. Igor E. tries to control almost everything, including the treatment process. Every time he is interested how many droppers and medications were prescribed to his son.
«He comes to me at the staffroom, looks though the analyses and I have to explain him the same thing for 10 times. Son in turn describes his father as a greedy person. You can never convince him, and he never gives anything. Moreover, when I come in, they start smiling and paying complements to each other, saying that it it’ll be over soon and they simply worry about each other», the physician of Italian said.
Specialists say that Italian’s father chose the role of a saver. The will to help his son is quite obvious. On the other hand he is trying to release from the feeling of guilt this way. For this reason he always emphasized that he was right in a way of bringing his child up. He blame his son in this life misfortune.
"They are so alike. I just don’t see the sincerity in his son. When you try to get some information out of him, healways avoids the question. It’s really hard to make him be frank and open enough,” the doctor said.
Gleb and his mother in turn have very warm and friendly relationships. Even though in the very beginning, at the airport it seemed that they rarely talk. Sometimes, they argue about small things, but mother is the only person in his family, who understands him and supports.
"She tries not to push on him and gives him the absolute freedom. They understood that it’s better to live in trust. Gleb feels guilty in front of his mother for having lied to her and betrayed. He has apologized for everything now,” Yulia Vassil, the physician of Gleb, commented.
The rest of participants, who came for the project with their mothers, Alex, Anatoliy Nesmiyanov and Ekaterina Antipova adore each other. Mothers love their children and worry about them. In the case of Alex and Ekaterina, their relationships with mothers have notably improved at the reality show Doctor Life, in particular. Alex became more sociable.
“Alex grew up without father and he hasn’t lived with his mother for a long time. Never the less, they are in good relationships. Alex’s mother wants him to move to her place. She practices Yoga and Alex gradually started to join her,” Elchibai Dzhunusov, the physician of Alex says.
Ekaterina from Magadan is the luckiest one! Her mother and beloved man support her in this hard moment of her life. They became closer to each other here at the project. Now they are more like friends, often walk by the handles and talk about future.
“They used to live separately. Tolik took care of Katia. Now, her mother and father in law are ready to move to St. Petersburg, where her daughter from the second marriage lives. They plan to live and work there together,” Elchibai Dzhunusov, the physician said.
Doctors are surprised how Olga, the wife of Andrey Kroshanov, loyally treats her husband and takes care about him. They are connected to each for real. At the first night of the project, when Andrey was going through terrible withdrawal, she seemed to feel all the pain of her husband and passed out. He also loves her. They’ve never quarreled and argued so far.
Christina, the wife of Victor Mallecker also loves her husband, but she doubts that he will manage to break off.
"They have good relationships, but she is really tired. She doesn’t trust him anymore. It’s hard for her to learn how to trust him again. She will be helped to overcome this problem at the therapy for co-addicted Elmira Satybekova," the physician of Victor said.
Victor has changed a lot, since he admits his problem. So far he has the strongest motivation among the participants. He always describes his behavior while talking to doctors, he bravely shares his fears and experiences. Victor is aware of his problem and asks for advice how to overcome it.
“He really wants to live, since he has a family to be lived for. He always says that he loves them. He analyzes the situation, understands that is very impulsive and that’s why asks us for help,” Victor’s physician says.
In a word, participants of the reality show are lucky though. They are not alone in their problem. There are a lot of people who are eager to help them on their way to the new life. These are their close ones, doctors of the medical center of professor Nazaraliev, and the world’s audience, who are not indifferent to them.
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